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Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Happy Homecoming Day to You, Sweet R!

Happy Homecoming Day, R! On this day 14 years ago we brought home
 a precious, beautiful, snuggly baby girl.
 You changed our lives for the better that wonderful day.
 And we are thankful for every single day with you. 
You are a good example to your siblings and a joy to our family.
 We thank the good Lord for sending you to us. 

It was fun to celebrate YOU today with your favorite treat made to order ~
 plain white cupcakes with no frosting!  
Of course S wanted you to have a candle,
 so we lit the candle and sang our little song in your honor.
 Thanks for letting everyone help you blow.

I loved the special treat of meeting our dear girl friends at the movies
 to see Beauty and the Beast 3D. 
I love being with you and spending time together. 

Happy Homecoming, R! 
We love you. 
We are proud of you. 
And we delight in you. 

Monday, January 23, 2012

Happy Homecoming, Sweet S!

Today we celebrate YOU, sweet S! We enjoyed beautiful January weather for your special day and you played hard with your brothers and sister outdoors most of the day. After supper we celebrated with sweet pink cupcakes with star sprinkles. And since you believe every celebration needs a candle and a song, we sang "Happy Homecoming to You" and you blew out your big star candle! You are adorable.

You came home with us from Ethiopia three years ago today, and every single day with you has been such a blessing. You are precious. You are loved. You are ours, and we praise God for your life! 

Happy Homecoming sweet girl!
So tickled about the song and candle!
Ready to blow it out
And one more time, just for fun!
You are such a little lady
Yummy!
I love those beautiful eyes
After celebrating it was time to play with your dollhouse
Will you play with me, Sissy?
Sweet Sisters

Monday, December 12, 2011

Why adopt? Xiaoyun answers best.

Amazing Xiaoyun is fourteen years old. She was adopted just a few months ago, right before she aged out of the system in China and became permanently unavailable for adoption. Thankfully Xiaoyun is HOME with her family and getting the medical help she needs for her scoliosis and learning just how much God loves her. But she knows that many still wait for a family to love them. And she knows what it feels like to wait ~ every child deserves a family of her own!

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Friday, December 17, 2010

So True

"The Bible calls debt a curse
 and children a blessing;
 but in our culture, 
we apply for a curse
 and reject blessings. 
Something is wrong with this picture." 
~ Doug Phillips

Friday, December 3, 2010

Ink You

I snuggled my little princess while we rocked in her room before bed tonight. She smelled delicious all slathered in apricot oil and jammied up, ready for a good night's sleep.

She put her head on my shoulder and I whispered all the tender thoughts I share with her as she falls asleep every night. Some phrases are my humble versions of what the nannies at the Care Center tried to teach me in Ethiopia. I speak them aloud every night to help her little heart remember that she is a cherished child of God, and a precious part of our family.

"I love you, S. Uh wah di shiloh (I love you.) Yah nailej me (You are my baby.) Mommy takes care of S. God loves you, and I love you."


She usually just listens quietly while I speak into her ear. But, tonight when I spoke those words she turned her face to me. She looked at me and said,"Ink you. Ink you."


That is her two-year old adorable version of  "Thank you." She said it to me twice, then she snuggled into my neck and drifted to sleep. And I melted into a puddle of mommy mush.

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Beautiful Ethiopian Doll

All you mamas of beauties born in Ethiopia have to check out this gorgeous doll from Target! I can't wait for Baby S to have one. Isn't she lovely?

Monday, November 29, 2010

Meaning

Does everybody on your Christmas list already have all the junk they need?
Instead of hitting the mall and buying them one more something, here is a great gift idea that is filled with love and meaning! 

You can give a gift in honor of your loved one, and actually help a precious child who is struggling with serious challenges like poverty, sickness, or malnutrition. Or you might choose to support a family that wants to start a home-based business to improve their quality of life for their children. There are lots of options, and each one is a truly meaningful way to tell someone you love them this holiday season.

Click here to read more about Holt International's Gifts of Hope or to send your gift. 

Holt blesses so many children across the world. As a Holt family, we have seen and felt those blessings in the lives of our own children. We are so thankful for Holt, and can recommend them without reservation. Holt loves God's precious children, and this Christmas you can become a part of their work all over the world! Won't you join us?

Saturday, November 20, 2010

National Adoption Day

May God bless all you lovely families He formed through adoption! 
May He bless all of you who support and pray for families like ours.
May we all be moved by His desire that the lonely be set in families. 


"A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows,
is God in his holy dwelling.

God sets the lonely in families..."

Psalm 68: 5-6

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Monday, October 25, 2010

Reality and Our Faith

Please read this powerful piece by Heather Hendrick. It is so touching, and so moving, and so true.

Though I have not seen the suffering in Haiti, the scenes that Heather describes rush me straight back to Ethiopia. Back to the crowded, muddy streets where I saw and touched the filthy, precious street children dressed in rags, begging for food. It was a life-changing experience. How absolutely heartbreaking to come home to our comfortable life and leave so many of God's little ones hurting and hopeless!

I'm still struggling to figure out what to do with this reality, so sharp and fresh and raw, even now. Where do I put those images in my mind? Just exactly how can God use me?

Reality is a weighty thing.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Hope in Shinshicho

The link below takes you to the Holt Blog, where there is a touching story about work being done in Shinshicho. This town is very important in the life story of our precious Baby S and has a special place in our hearts.

While we were in Addis, we had the privilege of discussing the plans for this wonderful clinic with one of the doctors who worked tirelessly to get it up and running. The need is so great in that region, and this facility and its medical staff are now able to alleviate so much suffering. I hope you will enjoy reading about it!

Holt International - Ethiopia - Where We Go From Here

Sunday, May 2, 2010

A Broken System

Apparently we aren't the only willing, stable, and loving family who found our experience with the US foster care system to be a shocking mess of mishandling, senseless delays, and buck-passing at the expense of the children. Our short stint was nothing short of gut-wrenching, so I have nightmares thinking of what the precious kids in the system endure.

I pray that this organization can affect some needed changes~ for the sake of the children, and the families who just want to love them.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Certificate of Citizenship

Here is an article in the Houston Chronicle about a very sad incident. A man was arrested and then he was deported to Mexico, simply because the system didn't recognize him as a citizen of the U.S. Even though he was legally adopted by parents in Texas, he is now stuck in a kind of limbo ~ a citizen of nowhere.

Now, I realize that this tangled mess started for him due to his illegal activity as an adult.  It is certainly my prayer and expectation that such criminal circumstances will never involve any of my children. But, I've heard of other odd ball situations that don't stem from any crimes being committed,  that still resulted in this kind of immigration mess for an adoptee. These kinds of hassles can arise for any international adoptee who does not have proof of their  U.S. citizenship. So, as parents, it is our responsibility to dot every i and cross every t for the sake of our children.

As our family prepares to take this "journey to documentation" for the third time, I did a little interview with myself about this issue.

How do you make sure your children are recognized by the U.S. government as citizens of the United States of America? 
We get them their very own official Certificate of Citizenship through the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Service. 

How do you do that?
We apply through the USCIS, pay a boatload of money, then wait for weeks or months for an invitation to do some more stuff.

That sounds like a big pain. Is it?
Of course it is. We have to work through a government agency, remember?

Is that all there is to it?
No wait, there's more! After all that waiting and expenditure, we get to load up our whole family and drive over 8 hours round trip to the USCIS office where we go through security, wait an inordinate amount of time in a poorly ventilated and packed waiting room, then have our baby "interviewed" by a staff member who will hopefully approve our child to get that coveted COC.

You said this costs your family a boatload of money. Are you kidding? Do you really have to pay for this, since your child is already legally yours and is already entitled to American citizenship as an adoptee?
Yes. And by "boatload" I mean $460 per certificate. Plus we get to add in the cost of that great family vacation across the state to that lovely USCIS office waiting room. Our child is already legally ours, we have the birth certificate to prove it, and we have legally completed the adoption in every way. But we still have to get the COC.

You seem a bit frustrated by the whole thing. Why?
Because the Child Citizenship Act of 2000 provides that children who are adopted by American citizens will automatically receive citizenship. It's the child's right, it's fair, and it's the law. But the system just doesn't work that way for many children who are adopted from abroad. And because we can't trust that all agencies in the U.S. government will EVER work from the same playbook of laws, we have to take this extra step to secure our child's PROOF of citizenship.  Yes, It's thoroughly aggravating. 

Well, then, why do you keep doing it? Why not just roll the dice and hope your child never gets caught in a messy government web of foolishness? We keep doing it because we love our kids too much to take that chance. And we don't trust the government any further than we can toss it.



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